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为了升职男友找前妻复婚

2017-07-11 20:41 作者: 完美小编 来源: 本站

  你可以这样问他:“你还相信你自己吗?”

  再后来又好了,去年十月份,他单位调职找关系,上司对他说回家和老婆好好过日子才能升职,要不就不要来找他,为了升职,他去找他前妻了,他前妻说三天内和她复婚,然后再立份合同大意是,以后不准再提离婚,如再离婚男方要给前妻八十万,他为了升职第二天就搬回前妻家,也没问问我的意见。

  那现实的问题是什么呢?

  肖军咨询师回复:

  网友提问:

  可能连他都不知道该不该相信他自己——因为他是一个内心极为混乱的男人,至少目前是这样。

  我离婚了,孩子两个月,05年我认识了他,那时他没离婚,他说他和老婆这样过一辈子他不甘心,想着要离婚娶我,后来他老婆知道了我的存在,她也没闹只是劝我让我再找一个,我们三个人纠缠了好些日子,后来他离婚了,但是我们之间因为他离婚时的纠缠也不如刚开始了,不互相信任对方了。

  我离婚了,孩子两个月,05年我认识了他,那时他没离婚,他说他和老婆这样过一辈子他不甘心,想着要离婚娶我,后来他老婆知道了我的存在,她也没闹只是劝我让我再找一个,我们三个人纠缠了好些日子,后来他离婚了,但是我们之间因为他离婚时的纠缠也不如刚开始了,不互相信任对方了。

  肖军咨询师回复:

  现在我们在一起除了每个周六去他那里住一天外平时也不像以前那样天天打电话了,我想过离开他但是想想和他在一起好几年了也不甘心,还有,我的孩子从会说话就叫他爸爸了,在孩子心里他就是爸爸,我也怕再拖对孩子不好,就是狠不下心来分手,帮我分析下我该怎么办?

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  他回到前妻家后还和我联系,说是离不开我,要等升职后再离婚,但年底他也没升职,现在我问他能不能离婚他说不好说,但又不放弃我,我提出几次分手,他都不同意,说是没有我他不能过,他前年炒股赔了十多万块钱,借的单位的钱,经济方面他也从来没帮过我。

  你可以这样问他:“你还相信你自己吗?”

  所以,现在不是相信不相信他的问题了,而是如何面对现实的问题。

  那现实的问题是什么呢?

  现在我们在一起除了每个周六去他那里住一天外平时也不像以前那样天天打电话了,我想过离开他但是想想和他在一起好几年了也不甘心,还有,我的孩子从会说话就叫他爸爸了,在孩子心里他就是爸爸,我也怕再拖对孩子不好,就是狠不下心来分手,帮我分析下我该怎么办?

  他回到前妻家后还和我联系,说是离不开我,要等升职后再离婚,但年底他也没升职,现在我问他能不能离婚他说不好说,但又不放弃我,我提出几次分手,他都不同意,说是没有我他不能过,他前年炒股赔了十多万块钱,借的单位的钱,经济方面他也从来没帮过我。

  可能连他都不知道该不该相信他自己——因为他是一个内心极为混乱的男人,至少目前是这样。

  我觉得,现实的问题是要暂时不要谈感情,而是要谈彼此的责任和义务,特别是对孩子的责任。必要的时候,可以寻求律师的帮助。不要再拖下去了!

  网友提问:

  所以,现在不是相信不相信他的问题了,而是如何面对现实的问题。

  再后来又好了,去年十月份,他单位调职找关系,上司对他说回家和老婆好好过日子才能升职,要不就不要来找他,为了升职,他去找他前妻了,他前妻说三天内和她复婚,然后再立份合同大意是,以后不准再提离婚,如再离婚男方要给前妻八十万,他为了升职第二天就搬回前妻家,也没问问我的意见。

  我觉得,现实的问题是要暂时不要谈感情,而是要谈彼此的责任和义务,特别是对孩子的责任。必要的时候,可以寻求律师的帮助。不要再拖下去了!

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